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Life is not perfect - FOR ANYONE.  The quality of life is not measured by your circumstances but by what you do with those circumstances.  If your life seems out of control, or your quality of life needs a boost      STOP STRUGGLING ALONE! We can help.
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Helping you overcome your challenges to maximize your quality of life

Thom Wilder brings a rich perspective to his counseling from over 30 years of widely varied experience.  Thom takes time to understand each client's unique situations and offers support and direction tailored to the specific needs and personal strengths of his clients. In addition to general counseling services with couples and individuals, Thom is the architect of the "Conquering Chronic Conditions" and "Wellness for Caregivers" programs, which provide support and help to those living with chronic health conditions and their caregivers.  Building on his own experience caring for his wife through her disability status for the past 20 years, Thom has developed a skill set and authentic depth of empathy to offer meaningful help to others walking the same path.  Education: B.A.  Sociology, Auburn University, Al.  1980 Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary,        Ft Worth, Tx. 1988 MA, Professional Counseling.  Liberty University,        Va, 2016. Thom has clients in Texas, Australia, New Zealand, India, Canada, Portugal, Spain, France, Dubai, UK, Bahamas, and Thailand. He may be reached at or 469.240.1580. 
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Let's talk. I can help with...

  • Caregiver Issues
  • Chronic Illness
  • Conflict Management
  • Grief
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Spirituality and Religion
  • Stress
  • Trauma


  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Dialectical (DBT)
  • Family/Marital Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)
  • Trauma Focused Therapy

Insurance Accepted

  • Aetna
  • United Healthcare
  • Oxford
  • Oscar
  • Headway
  • Cigna


  • Initial intake: $150
  • 60 minute : $125
  • 45 minute: $100


“After 30 years, I had given up on finding a therapist who had the ability to handle my severe issues. Thom has listened patiently and never tuned out my devastating past. He has helped guide me out of the darkness and show me new ways to think and live. ”

Patricia C

“Thom has been awesome as a couples counselor. Thom is sincere, kind, compassionate, a good listener and tries to find practical solutions for us. More than anything, he facilitated us being able to be open and honest with each other. ”

Caleb H

“Mr. Thom Wilder is a phenomenal individual. He caters to the needs of his clients and constantly upholds his professionalism without disregarding his compassion. 10 out of 10 I recommend ”

Vanessa R


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